The arrival
Money that arrives all at once arrives with pressure
An inheritance, a business sale, a settlement, a life insurance check. Sudden money looks like pure good fortune from the outside; from the inside it usually arrives tangled with grief, advice from every direction, and a feeling that you should be doing something with it immediately.
The something-immediately instinct is where most windfall mistakes come from. Very little about sudden money is actually urgent — and the parts that are urgent are rarely the parts people rush.

